Will’s mom loves running races with him. Although, he faster than me…. When he was a little boy I could catch if he ran from me. New parents enjoy every sleepless night with that baby, at least you know your child is safe with you.
Reminds me of my nephew, your story about your son. He played soccer and was very good. Goalkeeper. Junior year his team went to the State Quarterfinals but lost on a rotten day in November near Flint. Still, Ryan had six or seven clean sheets that year. I was a very proud Uncle.
I have a graduating high school senior about to walk in a few weeks and she's about to embark on her own journey. This summed up so many feelings I've been having lately. Beautifully written piece, and now I have to delay taking trash to the dump because my eyes are all welled up
That moment at the field is a special one. It carries a notably special meaning for you now, but I’d bet it comes back to him some distant day from now, maybe with kids of his own, when he remembers how often he looked up and saw you there. The coolest part: it won’t just be this moment that floods back to him.
(I didn’t have that as a kid with my dad, but I do have it with him as an adult—it’s special now, too.)
A perspective of an introvert (as are both myself and wife); I didn't attend my HS graduation nor University. Choosing to not take the time off work. We were married 48 years ago at the Court Registry (I managed to get the afternoon off work) then out to dinner with just the immediate family. God forbid that either of us would be the centre of attention........ at anything. Well, I guess I am ok with it at my funeral where my wife is instructed to open my whisky cabinet and allow anyone bothering to attend to 'haveatter'. I am thinking for once in my life (yes, I know the inaccuracy of this statement) I will be the most popular guy in the room ...so to speak.
My wife reminded me that I did not have a retirement party and her 'party' was the most uncomfortable 90 minutes of her life....so far. 90 minutes of being the centre of attention, people saying wonderful things about her was not her idea of a good time.....kinda like a funeral that you are actually present and conscious.
Too true; I read all of that thinking, oh hell no, what an extrovert! I’m just going to randomly walk around to miss the meet and greets. Or better yet, stay home with my dogs.
You are amazing. Your view of middle school is unlike most of my memories as a student , teacher in middle school, and an administrator of a middle school. I thought it was purgatory in each instance. Your writing always makes me feel better.
Outstanding article Will. In my opinion your journey as a dad is just starting, as your son gets older the challenges of the father-son relationship becomes more complex and requires insights that fortunately you seem to have well in hand. BTW participating in a road race with your mom is priceless.
Great article. I am childless by choice, but yours is the first article that made me think what a selfish choice that might have been. In any case, that horse is long gone and it’s probably a good thing for those unborn souls.
Hi Will, I skipped the 5/13 podcast of Seeing Red, as the Cardinals were miserable and I am tired of the wailing and gnashing of teeth (including my own). I just listened to the 5/20 podcast, and was taken by the continued wailing and gnashing of teeth after a 4-2 week. Granted, the Cardinals are nowhere near the ‘27 Yankees and the pitching staff is Gray, Gibson, and pray for three days of rain (or there will likely be pain). Still, I was hoping for a little less pessimism. We’ll see what this week brings. All the best to you and yours.
This is fair, I suppose, though the Marlins were 4-2 last week too and I don't think that changed anything in their trajectory in any concrete fashion. But noted ... and go 4-2 this week against the Orioles and Cubs, and then we're (kinda) talkin'. And thank you for listening!
Just listened to today’s Seeing Red podcast. I got a kick out of your reference to my comments above about the tone of last week’s podcast. Thanks! FWIW, my thoughts about the highs and lows of this week’s podcast are in sync with yours and Bernie’s. Time will tell if we’re wise or foolish. Anxious about using Pallante as the 5th starter. Wish him well, but the front office needs to keep working the phones. Hope your A/C hubbub works out well for you and yours. Best wishes, as always!
THAT'S why I couldn't find it in my email: It was HERE that you said that. Whew, I thought I was going crazy. Thank you for listening (and reminding me).
Thank you for responding. I do believe that if we’re not tracking to win 85+ games (for the season) by the first day of summer, Bloom should be named POBO and Mo should be given a face-saving advisory position.
Will’s mom loves running races with him. Although, he faster than me…. When he was a little boy I could catch if he ran from me. New parents enjoy every sleepless night with that baby, at least you know your child is safe with you.
OK, fine, Mom, I will subscribe to your Substack already.
Wonderful article. It got very dusty in the house just now.
well, thanks for THIS morning's cry....(as the tear drips onto the keyboard)....
Reminds me of my nephew, your story about your son. He played soccer and was very good. Goalkeeper. Junior year his team went to the State Quarterfinals but lost on a rotten day in November near Flint. Still, Ryan had six or seven clean sheets that year. I was a very proud Uncle.
Wow, terrific as I fly to FSU for the last time and to drive home with my son.
I have a graduating high school senior about to walk in a few weeks and she's about to embark on her own journey. This summed up so many feelings I've been having lately. Beautifully written piece, and now I have to delay taking trash to the dump because my eyes are all welled up
I am absolutely not ready to be where you are.
I am absolutely not ready to be where you are.
I am absolutely not ready to be where you are.
Wonderfully written and so poignant.
That moment at the field is a special one. It carries a notably special meaning for you now, but I’d bet it comes back to him some distant day from now, maybe with kids of his own, when he remembers how often he looked up and saw you there. The coolest part: it won’t just be this moment that floods back to him.
(I didn’t have that as a kid with my dad, but I do have it with him as an adult—it’s special now, too.)
Great piece - love when you write about the wild experience of being a parent.
It is definitely wild!
A perspective of an introvert (as are both myself and wife); I didn't attend my HS graduation nor University. Choosing to not take the time off work. We were married 48 years ago at the Court Registry (I managed to get the afternoon off work) then out to dinner with just the immediate family. God forbid that either of us would be the centre of attention........ at anything. Well, I guess I am ok with it at my funeral where my wife is instructed to open my whisky cabinet and allow anyone bothering to attend to 'haveatter'. I am thinking for once in my life (yes, I know the inaccuracy of this statement) I will be the most popular guy in the room ...so to speak.
My wife reminded me that I did not have a retirement party and her 'party' was the most uncomfortable 90 minutes of her life....so far. 90 minutes of being the centre of attention, people saying wonderful things about her was not her idea of a good time.....kinda like a funeral that you are actually present and conscious.
As someone that shares both introvert and extrovert tendencies, I understand this.
Too true; I read all of that thinking, oh hell no, what an extrovert! I’m just going to randomly walk around to miss the meet and greets. Or better yet, stay home with my dogs.
You are amazing. Your view of middle school is unlike most of my memories as a student , teacher in middle school, and an administrator of a middle school. I thought it was purgatory in each instance. Your writing always makes me feel better.
It's easy for me to say now ... I'm through it!
As a Knicks fan, the only reason I am sane is that the Rangers spared me a Game 7.
I am now pouring my Knicks fandom into them.
Outstanding article Will. In my opinion your journey as a dad is just starting, as your son gets older the challenges of the father-son relationship becomes more complex and requires insights that fortunately you seem to have well in hand. BTW participating in a road race with your mom is priceless.
I don't know if I have any insights, but I'm holding on for dear life!
I don't remember the Pebbles & Bamm-Bamm nuptials - perhaps that aired after The Great Gazoo episodes. . .
Great article. I am childless by choice, but yours is the first article that made me think what a selfish choice that might have been. In any case, that horse is long gone and it’s probably a good thing for those unborn souls.
I certainly don't think it's selfish, and I personally don't think anyone else--anyone with kids or anyone without--should either.
Selfish might not be the right word, but your article touched a deep chord in me. Well done.
Hi Will, I skipped the 5/13 podcast of Seeing Red, as the Cardinals were miserable and I am tired of the wailing and gnashing of teeth (including my own). I just listened to the 5/20 podcast, and was taken by the continued wailing and gnashing of teeth after a 4-2 week. Granted, the Cardinals are nowhere near the ‘27 Yankees and the pitching staff is Gray, Gibson, and pray for three days of rain (or there will likely be pain). Still, I was hoping for a little less pessimism. We’ll see what this week brings. All the best to you and yours.
This is fair, I suppose, though the Marlins were 4-2 last week too and I don't think that changed anything in their trajectory in any concrete fashion. But noted ... and go 4-2 this week against the Orioles and Cubs, and then we're (kinda) talkin'. And thank you for listening!
Just listened to today’s Seeing Red podcast. I got a kick out of your reference to my comments above about the tone of last week’s podcast. Thanks! FWIW, my thoughts about the highs and lows of this week’s podcast are in sync with yours and Bernie’s. Time will tell if we’re wise or foolish. Anxious about using Pallante as the 5th starter. Wish him well, but the front office needs to keep working the phones. Hope your A/C hubbub works out well for you and yours. Best wishes, as always!
THAT'S why I couldn't find it in my email: It was HERE that you said that. Whew, I thought I was going crazy. Thank you for listening (and reminding me).
Thank you for responding. I do believe that if we’re not tracking to win 85+ games (for the season) by the first day of summer, Bloom should be named POBO and Mo should be given a face-saving advisory position.